BTS, one of the most influential Kpop groups globally, has a massive and dedicated fanbase known as ARMY. While their words often provide comfort and inspiration, there are instances where their sweet messages can lead to unrealistic expectations and delusions among fans. Here are some examples of how BTS and other Kpop idols’ charming interactions can sometimes go overboard, causing fans to develop false beliefs.
False Beliefs in Kpop: When Sweet Words Cause Delusions
The Ring Finger Promise: Suga’s “Keep Your Ring Finger Free”
One notable instance is when Suga, during various interactions, has mentioned, “Keep your ring finger free.” This phrase has stirred excitement and hope among many ARMYs. While some fans understand this statement as a playful comment, others take it literally, believing that staying unmarried gives them a chance to marry Suga one day. Realistically, with millions of ARMYs worldwide, it’s impossible for Suga to marry them all. Although sweet and engaging, this kind of statement can lead to delusions if taken too seriously.
The Illusion of Being a Girlfriend or Boyfriend
Some Kpop idols, including members of BTS, have occasionally referred to their fans as their “girlfriends” or “boyfriends.” While these statements can be endearing and make fans feel special, they are typically meant to strengthen the idol-fan bond rather than being taken literally. Furthermore, companies sometimes instruct idols to make such comments to increase fan engagement. However, fans need to understand that these terms are used metaphorically and not as actual declarations of a relationship.
The Myth of the Dating Ban
Another prevalent issue in the Kpop industry is the so-called dating ban. Many fans believe that idols are not allowed to date due to their busy schedules and strict agency rules. While it’s true that idols have demanding careers, it doesn’t prevent them from having personal relationships.
The notion that idols are only allowed to date their fans is false. Agencies often restrict idols from dating fans to maintain professional boundaries. Like any other adults, Kpop idols date, hook up, break up, and live their lives. Fans should be cautious before believing that their favorite idol will start a romantic relationship with them.
Dating Rumors and Fan Reactions
Like many celebrities, BTS members have faced dating rumors that stirred strong reactions among fans. For instance, when rumors spread about BTS Jungkook allegedly dating actress Lee Yoo Bi, some fans reacted angrily and disappointed. Despite the rumors being unconfirmed, the speculation was enough to spark a wave of hate comments towards both Jungkook and the alleged partner. Similarly, when V was rumored to be dating a chaebol daughter, the backlash from fans was swift, with some expressing their disapproval online.
This phenomenon is not exclusive to BTS. Recently, aespa Karina faced a similar situation when dating rumors about her and actor Lee Jae-wook surfaced. The rumors led to significant fan backlash, and Karina even felt the need to address the issue publicly, apologizing for the misunderstanding.
These instances highlight how the delicate balance between idol privacy and fan engagement can lead to intense emotional responses. Fans who harbor false beliefs about their idols’ personal lives may feel betrayed or hurt when faced with the reality that their favorite stars have personal relationships outside the public eye.
Intimate Relationships with Idols
Additionally, Kpop idols often tell their fans that they are their “best friends,” which can lead to a perceived intimate relationship. While it’s heartwarming to feel close to one’s favorite idol, fans should recognize the boundaries of these interactions. The notion that an idol shares a personal, intimate friendship with each fan is unrealistic. These statements are meant to build a strong, supportive fanbase but should not be misconstrued as genuine personal relationships.
For example, ITZY Lia often shares heartfelt messages with fans. During a live broadcast, she might say something like, “You guys are my best friends. I always feel so supported and loved by you. Thank you for being there for me.” While these words are meant to show appreciation and strengthen the bond with fans, it’s essential to remember that this is part of fan service and does not indicate a personal, individual friendship.
Wrap Up
While BTS and other Kpop idols aim to connect with their fans through sweet and affectionate messages, fans must maintain a realistic perspective. Understanding the difference between fan service and genuine personal interaction can help prevent delusions and maintain a healthy fan-idol relationship.
It’s perfectly okay to admire and support your favorite idols, but always remember that their public interactions are part of their professional personas.
By keeping these points in mind, fans can continue to enjoy the music and positive messages from BTS and other Kpop idols without falling into the trap of false beliefs and unrealistic expectations.
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Why you blame on bts ??? The ones spreading false beliefs are the agencies. They make the idola do that.